So, how do you know when you’ve found the job that’s a perfect fit? How about the fact that the day zips by and before you know it, it’s time to go home. You find yourself immersed in your work and have to remind yourself to take a “bio break.” You smile on your commute in. You don’t experience “Sunday Night Dread.”
I’m lucky to be in a job where all of the above is true for me. However, it wasn’t always the case. I recently had the fortune to be laid off from a job I was only in for a few months, however it didn’t take me near that long to realize it was a bad fit. When you cry at your desk at least twice per week, that’s a bad sign, my friends. What made it so horrible for me? It was the wrong kind of work for my skills, it was an environment that didn’t align with my style…need I go on? So when the rumors of layoffs swirled and I was called into the HR office, I practically SKIPPED in the door. Yeah, you know when it’s not right.
Why am I writing to you about this, dear reader? Because fit is everything. It’s more than money – I have left a position where I was paid a ridiculously high salary because the work and the environment were not right for me. It’s about being true to yourself – your family – your customers. It’s about protecting and nurturing the essence of who you are and not compromising yourself.
You might wonder why I included that sassy little cartoon at the top of this post. That represents me in my perfect job. See the arch of the eyebrow and the curl in the smile? That is me, adding value and loving it. I have found my perfect fit. Have you?


August 6, 2008 at 7:45 am
Shari,
I was awful to watch you in that job that was not right….and a delight to watch you re-blossom now that you are in a place you love.
It’s that matching the strengths thing again- so critical. Any of us can be reduced to seeming incompetence when put into tasks that require skills out of our “best” range. Life is way too short!
August 7, 2008 at 7:29 pm
High five, Christine! You are right on the money. I know we’ve shared “war” stories of jobs that were not the right fit. Glad to see we’ve both found our place.
I so appreciate having you as a colleague, Christine. I continue to learn so much from you and it is awesome!!!
Shari